I Lost My Soulmate. How Do I Let Go of My Love?

  • Post last modified:August 17, 2026
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Jump to Your Specific Situation Case 1 ↓ Grieving the Death of a Partner Case 2 ↓ Surviving Breakups & Divorce Case 3 ↓ Surviving Unrequited Love Losing a soulmate can mean the loss of a partner due to death, divorce, or unrequited love. I will cover all three cases and discuss how to survive each one.Case 1) Lost My Soulmate: Grieving Over the Loss of a PartnerThere is no…

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Getting Over a Breakup When the Reason Seems Confusing

  • Post last modified:October 8, 2025
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Q: Dear Todd, I recently separated from a partner citing that being together was difficult for her mental health and her judgment of my own inner peace. She believed I had more to work on. Ending things over that made me question the validity of the oneness sadly because her depth into that study is significant.Maybe I am amidst processing and possibly misunderstanding it, but I feel it was the…

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When a Sensory Pleasure Hedonistic & When a Beautiful Experience

  • Post last modified:February 4, 2024
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The distinction between a sensory pleasure being hedonistic and a beautiful experience lies in the depth and nature of the encounter. While both involve a heightened sense of enjoyment, they diverge in their underlying qualities and the impact they have on one's well-being.A sensory pleasure is often hedonistic when it prioritizes immediate gratification and indulgence in sensory stimuli. This could include the enjoyment derived from taste, touch, sight, sound, or…

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How to Avoid the Social Media Heartbreak Loop After a Breakup

  • Post last modified:June 5, 2024
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Breakups are emotionally challenging, and in today's digital age, the omnipresence of social media can complicate the healing process. The constant stream of updates, photos, and status changes can create a heartbreak loop, impeding the journey toward emotional recovery. Q: Dear Todd, how to not check my ex's social media and break my heart over and over again?TODD ANSWERS: These phones of ours really make enjoying life difficult. Even though we…

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How to Let Go of My Ex Who Has Moved On

  • Post last modified:April 3, 2024
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Q: Dear Todd, I got separated from someone I truly liked and every other minute a good or bad memory of him comes up. It's been 4 months now. I didn't know what happened. It was a shock for me and then I had to guess and accept what might have happened, but I can't seem to stop thinking about him. All emotions, and thoughts arise from that incident and…

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